I find it odd that I stopped shipping Arwen once it became canon. I think it’s because Gwen seemed to become less of her own character, only “Arthur’s love interest”.
The writers of BBC’s “Merlin” destroyed the things I loved most about certain other retellings of the legends: the romance of Gwenhwyfar and her Lancelot and the incestuous, but equally doomed, love/hate between Morgana and Arthur. I forgive them their sins only for giving me another tragic love story: that between a young warlock burdened by secrets and the emotionally stunted Prince who is destined to break his heart.
I love the fact that Mithian was a flawless and lovable princess and I love Merlin’s promise to give her a chance, which he did by not advising Arthur to choose Gwen over her; he just offered a word of truth, that Gwen would sacrifice any thing for him and Camelot, something Merlin witnessed a day before. He even tried to escape the conversation by suggesting to retire when Arthur asked him “what to do?” All this made Arthur’s choice utterly his and his love for Guinevere the epitome of romanticism
I’d really like it if Arthur banished Merlin for finding out about his magic, and then while Merlin is forced to live elsewhere he runs into Morgana (who already knows about his magic), and she tries to get him on her side. Maybe that’s what the producers mean when they say Merlin will have “temptations” in S5.